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Children should be allowed to be bored for a while. This is how they learn to be creative.
Sometimes it seems that children can only have fun through electronic devices and feel lost without them.
What is boredom in children? First of all, we need to understand that the human brain is programmed to seek constant stimulation.
For example, it is difficult for us to talk to a person when the TV is on in front of us. Our gaze is constantly falling on the screen because the brain requires more information about moving pictures.
This will happen regardless of the content you see, because constant changes feed our brains. He wants to keep the information updated, no matter how small and insignificant the changes are.
Also read: What to do when you're bored?
If this happens to adults, imagine what's going on in a child's brain. Of course, they have the same need for stimulation, but this is all exaggerated in children's brains.
Boredom in children
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Unfortunately, children are constantly watching TV or using a phone or tablet as the main means to meet their needs.
However, this habit is expensive because the child reacts to all stimuli and his brain does not rest. Moreover, children do not want to rest, but continue to look for incentives.
It is at times like these that they usually say in a sad voice: I'm bored. This is because they can't find anything close to the sensory stimuli that electronic devices give them.
Such devices are very convenient for parents because they help to entertain children so that they do not disturb adults.
Just look around at the café and you'll see kids looking at an electronic device at almost every table.
Now even cars are equipped with video screens in the back seat to entertain young passengers on the road and keep them entertained.
But is it really that bad to be bored?
Decades ago, when smartphones and tablets didn't exist, kids sat in the back of a car looking out the window. They just sat and watched and listened.
Perhaps they saw a horse running or a forest, and at such times their imagination was activated.
In today's frenetic world, boredom is seen as a bad thing. Why is it good for a child to be bored from time to time?
The benefits of boredom
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1. Boredom stimulates the child's imagination
When children are left without electronic devices, their imagination is forced to find ways to entertain themselves.
By giving them the opportunity to try things on their own, we help them develop their curiosity and discover things that bring them joy.
Moreover, the study found that people who were given a few boring activities showed better imagination than when asked to engage in creative activities.
Children need to learn to take the initiative and think about how to keep themselves busy without being told by anyone. This stimulates imagination and creative thinking.
2. Boredom teaches perseverance
The ability to withstand external (unfavorable) conditions allows the child to learn not to give up when faced with difficulties.
Boredom or having to think about ways to entertain yourself is an important way to develop that tenacity.
Each of us wants to believe we're good at everything, but kids who've never experienced failure don't know how to deal with it when this situation occurs.
Free time, when you can try new things without worrying about failure, is essential for a child to develop resilience and resilience.
3. Boredom develops a child's problem solving skills
Is your child used to you coming up with something for him every time he's bored?
Stop getting involved because boredom will help him develop problem solving skills.
In an environment where a child is surrounded by stimuli, he feels uncomfortable with nothing to do.
But this develops initiative and the ability to solve problems, so he has to rely on himself to deal with the problem of boredom.
4. Boredom helps a child form relationships
When a child stays playing with other children, it helps them build interpersonal relationships that are being lost with the advent of technology.
Giving children time and space without distractions will encourage them to communicate and interact with each other, as well as participate in activities together.
In addition, they learn to maintain eye contact and read gestures and facial expressions, something that can only be learned with experience.
5. Boredom gives confidence
When a child has the opportunity to occupy himself and is able to do it, it improves his self-esteem.
Using free time to try new things, test yourself and take risks helps children gain confidence.
6. Boredom improves mental health
Modern children (and adults too) are so busy that they don't have much time to rest and let their minds wander.
Private time provides an opportunity to reflect and get to know yourself better.
Research has shown that it is very important for mental health to let our minds wander rather than focus on activities all the time.
7. Boredom creates a sense of belonging
Besides being boredom an opportunity to think, time off from activities gives children a sense of belonging.
If children are always focused on something, they take the environment for granted.
But it's important for them to get in touch with their environment to feel a sense of belonging where they live.
8. Boredom makes kids happy
A child may tell you that he is bored, but it can actually make him happier.
When adults talk about their childhood memories, no one mentions anything material. More often than not, we remember simple things like funny and sad situations, nature, and close relationships.
All activities that we think enrich a child's childhood actually interfere with a simple and contented life.
What to do when your child is bored
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How can you improve your child's imagination?
First of all, do a little experiment and let the kids get bored. Let them find the kind of stimulation their brain needs. If it's hard for your child to do this, try the following tips.
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Invite them to play with something without batteries. Do not do it as a punishment, but present it as a game or an interesting task.
You're a role model, so don't watch TV all night or use your smartphone at this time.
Don't offer alternatives, let them look around and find for themselves what interests them the most.
If your child chooses one of their toys, pay attention to what exactly: animated figures, cars, puzzles, construction sets, crafts or reading. You'll know how much he likes to have fun and you can develop his imagination by offering more toys like this.
If your child doesn't enjoy playing, try playing with him for a while and then step aside. Do this gradually. So he won't depend on your presence.
If your child can't find something to do, try tidying up his toys. This will help him get rid of toys he no longer uses. You can also give away unwanted toys and get your child involved in the process.
Encourage your child's ability to spend time alone. Take an interest in what he does and how he does it. Look at their achievements and find ways to improve them.
Schedule the time they can spend on electronic devices and stick to them.
Have fun together once a week. Dedicate one day a week to a time when the whole family can put things aside and do something together.