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Is it possible to mourn deceased relatives or is it absolutely impossible to do this?
Perhaps this question is of concern to everyone who has lost their loved one and loved one at least once in their life.
Is it possible to mourn the deceased
Opinions on this matter are radically different. Some people say it's okay to cry for a dead person. Others say: you can't do this! After all, it only hurts our loved ones where they are.
So the main question is: do they feel from heaven that we're crying for them?
Do they really feel sad to see their loved ones mourn them? We often hear advice not to cry for loved ones who have died, otherwise we will harm and disturb them.
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Is this true?
These are the questions that are most often asked to psychics by those who have lost their loved ones.
The answer to all these burning questions is Fara Gibson, a medium and psychic who claims to communicate with the spirit world, so she can shed light on some things.
What to do after the death of a loved one
So here's what Farah Gibson says about it:
I will try to answer these questions honestly. So, let's start with the topic of whether it is possible to mourn deceased loved ones.
The tears you cry for a loved one who has gone to Heaven are special. They're different from the ones we shed in other situations.
These tears are not filled with the pain you give to your loved one in heaven. Your tears are free from hate, anger, guilt, frustration, or any other negative emotion that may have hurt or hurt the souls of your loved ones.
Your tears are nothing but tears of love. Your love for them is the driving force behind these tears.
But maybe you're mad at them for leaving you, or are you feeling guilty about their departure? And it's possible… Such emotions were often experienced by everyone who lost a loved one. However, in any case, there is love behind them.
Anger, frustration, resentment, guilt — all these negative emotions are created by the human mind. These are thoughts, feelings, and emotions that we overcome on the path of grief. But your tears don't come from anger, frustration, or anger.
Your tears are nothing but the life you shared with your loved ones. Your tears represent moments you want to share with loved ones in the physical world. Your tears mean moments when you miss them here in the physical world. Your tears represent the unconditional, unwavering, and pure Love you feel for your departed loved ones.
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Do your departed loved ones from heaven see you crying? Can they see your tears? The answer to this question is yes. Your loved ones are fully watching everything that happens to you, including tears on your face.
There is nothing that escapes their attention. Remember, no matter what happens, they're always by your side. And when they see your tears, they try to send you something that will make you happy and make your face smile even slightly through those tears.
They know that your tears are a sign of how much love you feel. They also know how much you miss them.
However, there is another important point: your loved ones, while in Heaven, are absolutely unable to feel a negative message, thought, feeling, or emotion. That means your loved ones know you miss them, but they don't miss you…
Let me explain this point as well. Because there is no negativity in Heaven, they are unable to miss you. Instead of missing you, they just love you. This is the truth you need to accept and understand.
There in heaven, they feel pure, unconditional, and unwavering love for those who have stayed on earth. They're sure they'll meet you when you get to heaven. So there's no point in missing someone.
Our time here on Earth seems to go on forever… In heaven, our lives are just the blink of an eye…
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After the death of a loved one
Do grief and tears disturb and harm my loved ones in heaven?
“Let me answer this question as clearly as possible… Very often people who have lost a loved one come to me. They come after they have visited a clairvoyant or medium who has told them that crying is bad.
Remember one thing: no true medium should say anything negative about heaven. If a psychic is really real, then he will never help make a person feel afraid.”
Also, after talking to a real psychic, you should feel a bit of relief, feel like you just had a phone call from Heaven and you did it time talking to your loved one. You should feel peace and quiet in your soul.
Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to get your loved one back. However, you must remember that your family continues to live in a clean and perfect world filled with light and love.
So if a medium tells you that your deceased loved one is in the middle of two worlds right now, that he's stuck in limbo somewhere just because you're crying follow him, don't believe it.
Most likely, the reason why dishonest false mediums say things like this to people is because they really don't know enough about the afterlife.
So they just scare you by saying that your loved ones feel bad because you shed tears for them.
That's not really the case!
Your loved ones understand your tears.
After all, they also lived the life you are living now, and they are well aware that there are things that are very painful, even if they happen because of great love.
They're not asking you not to cry. Of course they're happy when you're happy, when you're laughing and smiling. However, your tears don't hurt them in any way, they don't make them unhappy, as some false mediums try to impose on us.
Relatives after death
Another question that concerns many of those who have lost loved ones is whether they are sad because I am crying? The answer to this question is also no!
They are simply unable to be sad because they live in Heaven, where there is no place for negative emotions and feelings.
Can you paint the most perfect place, fill that space with more love, and then multiply the resulting picture by infinity? This is the only way you can imagine how and where the souls of your deceased loved ones live. And you'll understand that they really feel good where they are right now.
Believe me, the guilt you're feeling is not what they want you to feel at all. The souls of your deceased loved ones do not need such sacrifices at all.
Your pain is not necessary for them to be able to feel your love for them. Perhaps you weren't on the best terms with the deceased during his lifetime, and that's eating at you now. Perhaps you are reproaching yourself for continuing to live on this Earth while your loved one has passed away.
Stop feeling guilty! Instead, remember the moments of joy and happiness you experienced together during your loved one's earthly life. These happy moments should remain in the memory of your loved ones.
Even if your relationship with your loved one was not perfect, this does not mean that from heaven he loves you any less.
Let your past be a lesson for you so that you can avoid the mistakes you once made with your loved one in the future. Perhaps you didn't tell him in time that you loved him, or you didn't give him enough love and affection. Don't feel guilty about this. It will burn you from within and ruin your life. There's nothing worse than a heart-burning sense of guilt.
Instead, take this lesson from the past to improve your relationships in the future.
Sometimes what you thought was an obstacle in your way was meant to start appreciating some points. So you shouldn't feel guilty about doing things wrong in the past. This was a lesson you need to learn and draw appropriate conclusions.
Mentally thank the departed loved one for all the good things you had to go through together.
They see you cry from Heaven and they know you're crying for love. They hear your prayers and words when you speak to them. They even know you're thinking about them in moments of silence and having the dreams you're having.
Either way, they love you and are proud of you. Our whole life is filled with lessons in love and strength. Most of all, we develop thanks to our struggle and willpower.
The passing of a loved one is the greatest lesson in love and the greatest test of strength life can give us.
So remember your loved ones and cry for them when you feel like it. Your tears don't hurt them in any way. After all, they are an expression of the deepest love you feel for them.
The editors of infoniac.ru ask you to pay attention to the fact that this article is the point of view of Farah Gibson, one of the famous psychics and mediums.