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Especially for you, we have selected 100 attractive wishes that can “make” the whole of 2023.
Now is a magical time when you need to make wishes and set goals. Then, when the year is over, the usual routine will begin, and unthought desires will simply be lost.
And so that at the end of the year you do not regret not risking a new position, seeing whales in Kamchatka, or scuba diving, the list of goals should be prepared right now.
Why do you need to create a list of wishes and goals?
Many of us think about things they would like to change and steps they could take to live a brighter, more fulfilling life. The first step to making 2023 the best year of your life is to create a meaningful New Year's wishlist.
But where do you start?
You can choose one of the general New Year's lists of promises to yourself online, and there will be phrases like: eat better, exercise, save money. We encourage you to go deeper and create 100% of your New Year's Eve list of your own wishes and goals.
We'll give you 10 possible areas to focus on, examples of desires, so you can choose what suits your inner impulses.
How do you create the right list of wishes and goals?
We recommend writing your wishes by hand on a piece of paper (in a notebook). It will not be so effective electronically. Write hints at the top: I want to change, I want to do, I want to see, I want to learn.
You can divide the paper into 4 sectors with these tips and quickly, without hesitation, throw short answers in each. The main thing here is to turn off rationality. Even if you want to dance in the rain in a light red dress — write! And write your other intimate desires too, this matter will remain only between you and the paper.
Then take a break, take a break for a few hours.
After that, give each wish a score from 1 (least significant) to 10.
Now write the most “significant” desires in a list. Try to be specific here. If you want to go on a trip, write down the country, the sights, the result that will show you that your wish has come true. If you want nude stilettos, then write so. Also set a performance period.
There should be no negative actions on the list. For example, not “I want to get rid of debts”, but “I want to be financially free and earn income from…”.
Make a list like this, reread it, and come back to it from time to time, noting where you've come.
What happens when you get to the bottom of your desires?
In general, the very ideas and wishes are already sitting in the depths of consciousness, but they are so easy and intuitive that they do not take specific steps to implement them. When you clearly write down your “wants” on paper, specifics appear.
Vague desires take the form of goals — with a specific result (what you want to get in the end), a deadline for fulfillment and actions to implement them.
You can sit on the list, as they say, “sleep with ideas”. Listen to the emotions that arise when you think about this or that desire — if you feel uplifted, you should continue. If the ascent gradually subsides, then maybe this is “not yours”, and you should give up the desire.
Emotions when thinking about your goal give you the impulse and energy to complete your plans and get a result that will make your life brighter.
Here are 100 examples of wishes and goals from different walks of life that will help you make your dreams come true this year. This is a great way to start preparing for a successful new year.
Travels
1. See the Eiffel Tower.
2. Listen to the Symphony of Stones in Armenia.
3. Explore the Great Pyramid of Giza
4. Attend a cocktail party at an ice restaurant.
5. Climb to the rooftops of the Sagrada Familia and the Gothic Cathedral in Barcelona.
6. Arrange the winter in Thailand or Cuba.
7. Fly in a hot air balloon.
8. Climb Dubai's most beautiful skyscrapers and dine at a restaurant.
9. Meet whales, dive with sea cows and turtles.
10. Lay on the beaches of Tunisia, see the El Jem Coliseum, and watch the sunrise on the El Jerid salt lake.
11. Go on a trip around the world.
Health, fitness, beauty, personal
12. Run 10 km.
13. Eat at intervals all year round.
17. Take Argentine tango lessons.
18. Buy a subscription to a sports club with a swimming pool and attend training sessions 5 times a week.
19. Give up sugar.
20. Learn to ski or snowboard.
21. Exercise regularly at home with your own body weight.
22. Join a travel club and go on expeditions.
23. Take diving courses.
24. Do face fitness for 15 minutes a day.
25. Go to a ballet studio, have a beautiful posture and get a healthy back.
26. Lose weight to… kg (specify ideal weight).
27. Make an ideal figure (describe the characteristics).
28. Donate money to charity on a regular basis.
29. Help a dog shelter once a month.
30. Take the course you've been wanting for a long time.
31. Go to a transformational game.
32. Keep a gratitude journal, start the morning and end the evening thanking the world for all you have.
33. To make every day special is to try interesting dishes, buy a chic perfume to drink and use it even when you go to the store, to allow yourself something small, but that has always been “for later”.
33. Learn to meditate.
34. Practice yoga every day.
35. Donate blood.
36. It's easy to wake up at 6am.
Relationships and community
37. Meet love.
38. Become a muse for the man you love.
39. To have a baby.
40. Establish excellent communication in the family (prescribe criteria, for example, go for a walk with the whole family every Saturday and spend time without gadgets).
41. Go to a psychologist for a consultation with your husband.
42. Build a relationship with mom.
43. Establish a cool relationship with the team at work, start going to parties together.
44. Meet your neighbors.
45. Apologize to someone for what they did a long time ago.
46. Call someone you haven't talked to in a while.
47. Make a list of 100 reasons why you love someone and let them read.
48. Learn to hear your desires and respect them.
49. Learn to say “no” when someone tries to pressure you.
50. Make 2 new friends.
Professional growth, money
51. Find a job that you like and that brings you the desired level of income.
52. Represent yourself as a professional.
53. Improve your speaking skills and speak at the conference.
54. Come to management with a job offer for the company.
55. Ask for a raise and argue your value.
56. Start going to interviews.
57. Get a job offer at a dream company.
58. Double your income.
59. Get the degree necessary for career advancement in a foreign language (or in any professional field).
60. Learn how to invest and create a stable passive income.
Hobbies and pleasures
61. Start competing in your area of interest, even if you think you're not good enough.
62. Take a pastry course with a famous pastry chef.
63. Start monetizing your hobby.
64. Sing karaoke even if you don't know how to sing, but you really want to.
65. Find your favorite celebrity and get an autograph.
66. Watch all the performances of your favorite theater.
67. Sign up for an online art course and start exploring your favorite direction.
68. See your favorite painting in the original.
69. Start learning a new foreign language (learn photography, etc.).
70. Learn to play an instrument.
71. Make a list of the 100 most “influential” books and read 2 books a month.
72. Watch all episodes (specify the series).
73. Buy the perfect one-piece swimsuit.
74. Start walking in high-heeled shoes.
75. Introduce skirts, dresses and the perfect coat into your wardrobe.
76. Earn enough for all the fun (specify the amount).
77. Get a cat, dog, etc.
78. Go to bachelorette parties without asking permission.
79. Buy a new bed with a comfortable mattress.
80. Renovate the kitchen.
81. Pay my mom for a 5-star trip to Turkey.
82. Get beautiful, healthy teeth.
83. Every Friday, my husband and I go to a restaurant, dedicate time to each other.
84. Take part in karting races.
85. Decide to move to another country.
86. Become a mentor and take students.
87. Learn to ask for and receive gifts.
88. Look 10 years younger.
89. Buy a house by the sea.
90. Become a famous blogger and gain (specify the number) of subscribers.
91. Make a bob haircut and dye yourself in berry color.
92. Attend a conference or event tailored to your interests, such as a superstar concert or the Olympics.
93. Take a ride on the scariest roller coaster
94. Skydive (do an extreme act).
95. Celebrate New Year in the mountains in a house with a fireplace.
96. Become the most desirable, relaxed and delightful partner for your man.
97. Reduce caffeine and alcohol consumption.
98. Swim naked in the sea.
99. Meet interesting people on a regular basis.
100. To feel confident, attractive and unique as a woman.